December 2009
24 posts
in which i commit to ... resolve
These past two quotes are going to have to be my mantras for the foreseeable future. after ending a relationship due to uncertainty, i know i have to be strong in the decision i made. for both of us. i know i’ve wrecked possible friendships and hurt people in the past by wavering in my resolution.
to be completely honest with myself, i don’t know what i want. for a statement with no...
“It’s so easy to come up with excuses. But what we’re really doing...”
– Lissa Coffey
“Decision is a sharp knife that cuts clean and straight; indecision, a dull one...”
– Gordon Graham
“1. Fold your hands in prayer behind your back. When we get stressed we tend to...”
– These are quick stress reduction strategies I received from a Coffey Talk email. I’ve really let #4 resonate within me. I love the idea of hugging yourself to get in to the present. I’m guilty of often running through days completely caught up in the stresses of yesterday or tomorrow. It...
the ex files
If boyfriend wants to go to lunch with first love/old best friend/ex girlfriend and she is married with a child now, why do i feel angry? and why did it take nearly a bottle of gin for him to ask me if i was ok with it? and is it really ever ok to say no? i don’t want to be in a relationship where i dictate what someone does or who they see. and they’ll probably just end up doing it...
ho ho hong kong →
world’s best santa just announced. who knew there were such succinct rules to being santa?
Santa has to be nice to everyone, especially children.
Santa has to be completely sober.
Santa [suit] has to be clean and looking its Santa best (red or gray and white)!
Santa can have a big beard, but not a silly mask.
in this case, i think they should cut the guy a break. a little alcoholidays...
